Twin Flames: The New Relationship Paradigm
Everyone has a Twin Flame. Everyone has an image of their perfect mate in their psyche and can describe them in detail. It is our anima and animus. We project these qualities onto our mates when we fall in love and marry. Most of us work with our Twin Flame unconsciously, but during this generation, some of us are meeting our twin soul incarnate. Hundreds are coming forward to help lift the vibration of the planet, for they manifest a powerful unconditional love.
A person will have a close natural rapport with a soul mate, but meeting your Twin Flame is a different experience. The Twins are here to help release karma at an accelerated rate. Psychologists who counsel others (unless they have gone through this experience themselves) commonly doubt the validity of a Twin Flame relationship. It is a powerful, magnetic meeting of two polarized parts of the same soul. In other words you have the same spiritual DNA as your Twin Flame and you recognize yourself in the “other.”
The special event of finding your Twin Flame and harmonizing into a happy relationship is a big challenge. It is a meeting with destiny and a chance for rapid spiritual growth. Loving your Twin Flame is an opportunity to experience how intimate relationships will be changing in the Age of Aquarius. In spite of much confusion, overwhelming emotions and frequent break-ups, Twin Flames open their heart chakra widely to each other. Unconditional love radiates through each conflict until harmony can eventually be mastered. These conflicts act as a stimulus to bring each twin’s “shadow” issues to the surface so the Twins can heal and integrate their personalities in a healthier way. If one has a complex or insecurity, chances are the other twin will have the same problem at some level, sometimes in reverse. All hurts must come up to be transformed and healed so nothing blocks their mutual love.
In the future, important relationships will be based mostly on love — rather than on needs for survival or domination. This movement towards the preference for love as the basis in marriage has been evolving for hundreds of years in the West. Love is forming the new prototype for intimacy and supports your partner’s spiritual growth, allowing their talents to fully blossom. We can then fully explore the true creative potential of being human — in harmony with the greater divine plan.
TheTwin Flames have a characteristic intensity of passion, desire and emotion, with a mental meeting of the minds that is unmatched in any other relationship. In the first encounter between twins, it is often their voice quality that is haunting in some way — signaling that this person is someone very special. You will see fleeting glimpses of yourself (in them) as you get to know each other better and the first few sexual encounters are usually very powerful. Kissing can be like a drug.
There are several stages in a Twin Flame relationship that are generally accepted. Their relationship tends to be magnetic, intoxicating and enlightening; but it is also a confusing connection with someone who has the Chironic power to hurt and heal you at the same time. The separations occur because you become self-aware of some aspect of your shadow-side and this is reflected back to you from your Twin. They are a mirror to your own soul. This is the toughest part of the love affair to understand. It is mandatory to do your own shadow work, a key component of Jungian psychology, or you will project your dark side onto your mate unknowingly. Unconditional love, complete acceptance and non-judgment are essential for these couples to be successful. But this is how the new relationship template is being built – through these very experiences. If you persevere, you can find true bliss with another human being. To observers on the outside, it seems like a strange obsessive dance; but to the Twins themselves, the joy and love they feel for each other is endlessly self-generating. It truly can feel like a miracle.
The separation process can continue for years as they struggle to harmonize, since it is common for one twin to run away from the relationship repeatedly. The intense emotions often threaten to engulf one or both partners. Break-ups can be paralyzing and intense feelings are often frightening without an understanding of the special dynamic involved. Often too one twin may still be entrenched in karmic relationships with others, complicating matters even more. All relationships must be handled with respect and resolved in the best way for all parties concerned — so that further karmic entanglements are not created.
The lives of Twin Flames are synchronous and parallel each other’s quite closely. The nearest phenomenon we know to this experience is the birth of identical twins. The psychic connection is just as intense and indeed, identical twins may also be Twin Flames, only born into the same family and sex. There will be opposites with Twin Flames as well, but they come together in agreement in the middle with very similar values. Their close psychic connection allows them to feel each other’s emotions if they pay attention. Their strengths are doubled, and so are their weaknesses — thus the need for personal work. These relationships can often create an iconic influence on their immediate social community if they can sustain it, especially with careers in politics or the arts.
All people have a Twin Flame and if you wish to find or work with yours, there are several methods that will help you connect. You can never lose your Twin Flame as they are an essential part of who you are. Relationships are becoming an opportunity to open one’s self-awareness in a safe environment – and they are less about “what can you do for me?” An understanding of the unconditional love that Twin Flames bring into the world will help improve all of your relationships. Up until now, unconditional love was experienced mostly through a good mother, child or a pet. The Twin Flames are bringing this love into the volatile romantic enounter, changing male and female relationships for the better.
If you or someone you know is experiencing a difficult relationship with many break-ups and reunions — they could be Twin Flames. I have written an in-depth eBook to help others navigate through these complicated connections — so much of the suffering can be avoided. I have been in a successful Twin Flame relationship for 12 yrs., and write from my own personal experience. Please contact me for further information, and visit my website for my eBook or schedule a private phone consultation. A half hour can do you a world of good